I could really use an unloading about now… would you like to share my burden? Help me leave it at the cross? Pray?
After The Riggs Family's post about my winning their contest, my blog got 554 hits yesterday! WOW! I think I gained some new readers, some have introduced themselves.
If you are a new reader. Welcome! I am sure glad to have you along, and glad to hear from you. Sorry, you arrived to such a dismal post… won’t you bare with me…
James: AAARRRRGGGGG!!!!! I am not happy at this moment with this child! I just saw one of his grades for his mid term. Now I have to ground him. la la la la la… are we having fun yet??? Otherwise… he’s been doing well. He is going to a concert tonight that I am less than thrilled about. (lucky for him, I found out about the grade too late to keep him home from this tonight) I am praying that he and his friends are turned off by what they see there, and not enticed. Please, Lord. Swimming is almost over, track is starting. He has a speaking part in the spring musical. He is singing with the swing choir. Too busy to study I guess… ahem. Praying for strength, wisdom, and my dad to come home and take care of this for me! ;)
Zach: He’s doing pretty well. Ever wanting to be on the go. What I’ve seen of his grades are pretty good. He’s between sports seasons, but not really… he is doing AAU Basketball and playing one night a week (tonight) and in a couple of weekend tournaments, coming up. We have freshman orientation this week for next year… he’s so ready… I’m so not ready!
Leah: Going well. Growing up. She is going to need all new clothes again this spring. Wow. How does that happen so quickly?
Lucas: Doing good too. Working hard. Look for pictures of a log cabin that we are working on this week.
Jadon: I just got the packet for his kindergarten registration today. He’s been doing very well in his preschool. No issues at all that I am aware of. This is such a blessing. He did throw two temper tantrums today, that make me think that he may be one that is into the drama department one day too. :)
Kiahna: Today was the first day of her new preschool. It sounded like a challenging day, but this teacher is taking it in stride. I made her an appointment with our counselor for this week… it’s been a long while. I need some support in this. I am feeling very overwhelmed.
The carpet is dry. I had to call someone to relay it for me though. Waiting to hear back from them on when that will be. So things are still torn up around here. Add that to the normal clutter and chaos I tolerate… that’s overwhelming too.
I’ve gotta go now, the bus just came, homework… dinner? and then running off to Zach’s game.
Sometimes I just need a good cry. Today is one of those days.
Pam
16 comments:
OH Pam,
Saying some prayers. I feel that way too sometimes...although I am sad that it is happening to you, it does make me feel better knowing that I am not the only mom that feels overwhelmed and wants to cry (sometimes)
Take it easy...
XO,
Mimi
It can be so overwhelming sometimes. Try to take care. Breathe. One step at a time. {{{hugs}}}
Oh Pam! I can totally relate and have had my fair share of those days too!
Sending hugs and prayers your way!
Love and blessings,
Jill
After reading your last post, I had to stop and take a deep breath. Oh my, I think you are doing great!
Crying is good. Doesn't solve a the problems, but it washes out the soul and helps you think more clearly.
You provide the examples, guidance and love. They will make their choices. That's all you can do. Oh, and pray.
Grades are important. Slipping up once in awhile isn't the end of the world. When he's 40 will this slip up matter. Probably not. Don't be too hard on him....he'll come around.
You're doing this on your own, and you are doing better than most would in your situation. It will be okay. Take care.
Just wanted to say "hello" from a new reader :o) I'm new to the blogging world and had to take a peak when I read you are a single mom of 6. Being a single mom of 4 can be hard I couldnt imagine 6. Then I see you have a Lucas who sounds very much like my Lucas :o)
We all have those days--we're allowed! Sounds as though you are doing a wonderful job-and making the best of what you were given--never more than we can handle.
Go ahead and cry-tomorrows a new day!!
Keep singing.
We all have those days--we're allowed! Sounds as though you are doing a wonderful job-and making the best of what you were given--never more than we can handle.
Go ahead and cry-tomorrows a new day!!
Keep singing.
and i can say "i knew pam when...."
Hello,
I noticed your oldest son is hoping to go to Purdue. I am a graduate of Purdue. My time their was very rich! I quickly got plugged into the Navigators fellowship and God truly blessed my life through that ministry. There are so many wicked things that scream for the attention of freshman. My advice is to find one of the many Christian groups right away. Many to choose from- Navigators, Intervarsity, Campus Crusade for Christ...just a few. Your children all have bright, joyful smiles. I can see in their faces that they've got a pretty awesome mama!
Blessings to you today!
Dawn
ok4life.com
Hi Pam, I don't know if you remember me or not - my name is Jenny and I worked at your dentist office for nearly 10 years. I quit summer of 07 when we brought home our baby (another transracial family!) and have been home since. I graduated a year after your sister L, I think. I always enjoyed when you and your kids, L and hers, or your parents came in. I miss visiting with them! I know you and your family knows this, but they are such Godly people, I couldn't help but feel the presence of God right there at work. I remember J and K being babies when you would bring the older kids in. I had little idea God was about to lead us down the path to becoming a transracial family too.
I'm so glad I found your blog (from Tara's blog, actually). It's nice to touch base with your family again. I will continue to pray for you and your entire family.
Blessings,
Jenny
You sound like a very busy Mom! I hope you can catch your breath and things get easier! Kids are fun and tough all at the same time, aren't they?!?!?!
With you, even when you need to cry. Especially then. But, read back through that update, darling, they are all doing really, really well.
Dont forget God sent you a valentine a few days ago... its not everday God does those special things on those special days. You are so blessed!!!
James will be ok. He is one cool kid, always a smile on his face, I wonder where he gets that...(I know, I know, his dear sweet momma)
Dont let Satan pull you down, remind him you are God's valentine and to LEAVE YOU ALONE!!! Shout it out if you have to, it works!
You are doing great, Pam, keep it up!!!
We will keep praying......
I missed this post. I'm sorry you had such a bad day. You should've called, text, emailed to let me know.
I hope this evening is going better.
Jenny's comment happen to catch my eye. How cool is that?! She use to work where you got your molars cleaned.
Pam,
I'm just getting caught up on my blog-reading...
You definitely have my prayers.
I hope things have settled down since you posted this.
Phil 4:13
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